Blending a family can be a very delicate process, and many times if not done properly can cause years of conflict. There are many factors that determine how to move forward with blending a family. For example, if there are children on both sides, if the children are older or younger, what the current access arrangements are for the children.
All of these circumstances determine how to approach blending a family to ensure as much success as possible. Just the fact that you are asking if you are ready is a good sign because it shows that you are being proactive. Here are some suggestions prior to blending a family.